It isn't what I do, but how I do it. It isn't what I say, but how I say it,

I think it's perfectly legitimate for me to be concerned about the people I care about hanging around someone who is a) capable of killing you b) would absolutely have no problem doing it under, ah, contested reasons and c) would not feel even the slightest bit of remorse at doing so.

In other words, I'm not disappointed, I just don't want you to, you know, die.